Hold onto your metaphorical magnifying glasses, dear reader, because the journey of self-discovery doesn’t end here, dive into a treasure trove of additional ideas that will elevate your personality test date to the next level, leaving you with a deeper understanding of yourselves and each other!
Some Leading Personality Tests
- Big Five Personality Test – The Big Five is different from other popular personality systems because its model is based on traits rather than types. The Big Five categorizes an inventory of related descriptive personality traits into a spectrum of five common dimensions: Openness, Conscientiousness, Extraversion, Agreeableness, and Neuroticism. We each have varying levels of these key personality factors that impact our thoughts, decisions, and behavior.
- 16Personalities – Our personality types are based on five independent spectrums, with all letters in the type code (e.g. INFJ-A) referring to one of the two sides of the corresponding spectrum. This approach has allowed us to achieve high test accuracy while also retaining the ability to define and describe distinct personality types.
- HEXACO Personality Inventory – A test that assesses the six major dimensions of personality: Honesty-Humility, Emotionality, eXtraversion, Agreeableness (versus Anger), Conscientiousness, Openness to Experience.
- 5 Love Languages Quiz – Take this quiz to discover your primary love language, what it means, and how you can use it to better connect with your loved ones.
Chemistry Test
- Variety is Key: Consider taking a few different tests that focus on various aspects of personality (Myers-Briggs for general types, Enneagram for motivations, etc.). This provides a more well-rounded picture.
- Test Prep: Instead of taking them at lunch, plan to take the tests beforehand. This gives you time to process the results and consider what you want to share.
- Reliable Sources Matter: Stick to well-established tests like Myers-Briggs, Enneagram, or the Big Five. Avoid overly trendy online quizzes for more insightful results.
Matching Quirks
- Conversation Starters: Prepare a few open-ended questions beforehand to spark deeper discussion: “What part of your results surprised you the most?”, “Do you feel your results accurately reflect how others see you?”, “How might our types complement each other in a relationship?”
- Beyond the Labels: Avoid focusing solely on the labels (Introvert, Sensing, etc.). Discuss how the underlying traits manifest in your life, choices, and work style.
- Lighthearted Humor: Embrace the potential for funny discrepancies between your self-perception and the results. A little gentle teasing adds to the fun!
- Compatibility Check: Research the compatibility between your personality types. It’s NOT to determine the fate of your relationship but a fun way to see potential strengths and challenges.
Bonus Tip: Later, surprise each other with small gifts that reflect your discovered personality traits!